Dating after long term relationship
Either way, I have decided to back off somewhat and see how things play out.Was the divorce amicable and are both parties on good terms?Are you actively involved in each others’ lives as “friends”? How long was the relationship failing before you broke up?But I thought it was an important question, which is why I want to analyze it with you. I made the conscious decision to move on instantly.
The only “right” answer is “whenever it feels right, as long as you’re not hurting anybody else.” The thing is: you might be surprised when you’re hurting someone else. The best example I can provide is from my own life. To me, it was the equivalent of being fired from a job. I was in no position to be a boyfriend to anyone but my beloved ex-girlfriend. My need to move on superseded her need to be with an emotionally available guy…. If so – if you’ve mourned, if you’ve healed, if you’ve made peace – then you’re ready whenever you say you’re ready.
It’s safe to say there many others out there who are in the same boat as you, each of them asking the same questions.
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