Dating she stopped calling
We’ve been dating over nine months, so we’re past the point where I should be ghosted. I can see building a future with this amazing woman, but this past week has been nothing short of torturous.As you suggested on our last Skype call, I didn’t call and decided to wait for him to call. It felt like a lot of hard work to keep it going and they usually just faded over time.It’s been ten days now and I am starting to get insecure and wonder if he is waiting for me to make a move? My husband, in contrast, didn’t disappear on me for more than a day. He made me feel secure, he wanted to make me feel happy / special and for not more than a day did I feel his attention go away from me.I don’t want to give up on this relationship, I want it to work. For a partner to disappear completely like this, there must be something that she is withholding and afraid to tell you.
I stopped dating in my college years to now (31/M) because I never met someone who got me. I’d hate to just show up unannounced or seem needy/clingy or desperate… It sounds like you showed compassion and understanding when it came to her physical condition and intimacy.
They know that when they back off, their woman will pick up the slack on their behalf. We are doing the planning bit in our private coaching sessions, so this part should not be hard.