You have a right to cry in your wine if the guy you’ve been dating for 3 months, who has truly gotten to KNOW you and you him, suddenly stops calling or breaks up with you. But the guy not responding to your “like” or your email on Match.com…that’s just part of the process that’s going to lead you to some fun dates and eventually your Mr. Move on without wasting one moment or one bit of energy. A lot of women are emailing the 60 year old man with a great head of hair, healthy, active life and good career. That wouldn’t bother me.” Well, imagine that he went home after Starbucks and there were 25 women waiting for him with open arms. Instead of tapping into the insecure 18 year old who is biting her nails waiting for the phone to ring and wondering what’s wrong with you when it doesn’t, grab the confident, experienced woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it.Imagine it like this – I asked a client about this yesterday: “You meet a guy in Starbucks and after a very brief chat he takes your card and he never calls. Some even have candy for him and are wearing sexy outfits. I encourage you to use online dating to meet as many men as possible.Rather than a swell or a change in the wind, expect rejections will happen and don’t let them knock you off course.Take each one on the chin and embrace the fact that each rejection brings you closer to your perfect match as you eliminate unsuitable matches and save yourself wasting valuable time on pointless dates.
In a world of hot-or-not dating apps it seems we have all been reduced to our ability to take a decent selfie.
The way I see it, better he NOT chose you and waste your time or save you heartache and disappointment later. There are a myriad of reasons YOU reject guys online as well.